Every person encounters abusers at least once in their life. They often become enemies, envious people and ill-wishers, or criminals from whose actions either the person himself or his loved ones suffered. Unfortunately, evil and vile people do not always get what they deserve - justice in our cruel world loses its strength and value. How to annoy an offender for meanness if law enforcement agencies or other authorities are inactive and refuse to help? Black and white magic offers its own solution to this problem - use a conspiracy at a distance.

Conspiracies used to punish the offender are considered powerful rituals and most of them belong to the arsenal of black magic. And the stronger the ritual, the more dangerous consequences it can turn into. The purpose of such conspiracies is to harm a person who has brought a lot of negativity into your life and has deeply offended you in some way. At the same time, it is very important to do such a ritual without harm to yourself.

Some rituals are also aimed at blocking the enemy's powers or turning his own witchcraft against him (in case he uses magic to cause damage to you and your loved ones). It is unlikely that the use of such conspiracies will end in the death of the offender, but he will be sick, tormented and suffer greatly and for a long time.

For the performer himself, long-distance conspiracies used to punish enemies will be safe only if their use is justified. The magic of retribution can only be used when you are the injured party. If anger on the part of the enemy was provoked by your actions or deeds, then the end result may be very disastrous for you - the conspiracy will backfire and all the evil that you wanted to direct at the “enemy” will fall on you, often in multiplied quantities.

Before using the magic of retribution, you definitely need to think it over and ask yourself the question - are you really a victim in this situation? By deciding to punish an innocent person through a conspiracy, you risk turning the forces of justice against yourself. Remember that the word in some cases can bring more destruction than physical violence.

Conspiracies to punish the offender

Prayer of retribution to the wind

The conditions under which the plot below should be read are clear sunny weather, the presence of wind, an open window or vent, complete loneliness. The text must be rewritten on a white sheet of paper and memorized from this piece of paper. When pronouncing magic words, the performer must visualize, imagining the atrocities of his enemy.

The plot goes like this:

“Lord my God, everything is in Your hands and in Your power. Everything is subordinate to You and controlled by You. You created everything and turned it to Yourself. The sun does not rise without You, the earth does not live without You. The wind does not blow in the desert, the stars do not light up above the horizon if You do not wish it. A person is not born, and the soul does not leave the body. I am Your creation, O Lord my God. Your unreasonable child, but wanting to know You through the manifestations of the world. I am Your small reflection! I am a part of Yours and in You. I walk under Your protection and patronage. Lord my God, restore justice, return grievances to everyone who is due!”

A conspiracy-whisper in the back of the offender

If you know your offender by sight and often encounter him, at the next meeting, wait until he passes by you and whisper a conspiracy behind his back:

“Go, arrow, with tears and pain, untrodden paths, through the blood, not into the eye, not into the eyebrow, but straight into the heart. Stab and pinch, hit and tear. Exterminate him, punish him, my offender (name of offender) . Key, lock, so be it!”

A black way to take revenge on the enemy for meanness

Attention! This spell is very powerful and dangerous, so use it only in the most extreme cases! This ritual can have very bad consequences for you.

The ritual is performed on those days of the month that are divisible by 6, i.e. 6, 12, 18, 24, 30. Time of day - strictly at 3 am. You need to prepare: white sheet of paper, church wax candle, pen with red paste, sterile needle, holy water.

To begin, light a candle, take a sheet of paper and describe on it in red ink as much detail as possible, in the smallest detail, the method of punishment that you consider necessary for the offender. Avoid ambiguity and understatement.

Then take a needle and heat it over the flame of a candle - it is advisable that it turns black. Puncture your ring finger and use the blood to cross out the inscription on the sheet of paper. Next, say the spell three times, mentally addressing the enemy:

“Written in blood, sealed in blood. I will correct your life with dark power. I will bring bitterness and tears into it. You cannot hide from my judgment. Let it be so!"

Burn the paper in the flame of a candle, collect the resulting ashes, sprinkle it with holy water and throw it into the wind. The offender will be “conquered” literally in 3 days.

Waking up in the morning, without washing and on an empty stomach, the performer must light a candle, take a photo, or write his full name. on a white sheet of paper. If this is a robber, you can simply write the word “thief” on the piece of paper. Next, you need to spit on a photograph or a piece of paper with initials with all your hatred and then say:

“Burn for you, (name of offender) , in my saliva, like devils on fire, until you fall at my feet and repent!”

A photograph or piece of paper should be placed on a saucer and set on fire from a candle flame, wait until it burns out and ash forms. This saucer of ashes should be left at the crossroads, also throwing in a ransom in the form of any 3 coins. The stronger the offense inflicted, the more powerful the punishment will be.

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Now there are many ways to take revenge on an offender: you can take revenge both in real time and by using all available ways to get at your enemy online. But before you take revenge, think about what this act will bring you, besides enormous moral satisfaction?

People have an expression: “I found a scythe on a stone.” It vividly illustrates the clash of poles, which occurs without the slightest hint of a positive outcome. However, all people are different, and it is almost impossible to adapt to some while sacrificing other people or even your own interests. And is it necessary?

Conflict situations lead to the accumulation of grievances among people. Feel the weight of unresolved issues, darkening of mood by divergence of views and discord.

All this is fraught with resentment. And it arises because although people are “moulded” from the same dough, everyone has their own “batch”! The fundamental part of this “batch” is human temperament. It is he who can create an explosive bomb or shake the ever-crying pendulum.

Subtle manipulations.

Everyone knows that there are four types of human temperament: choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic and melancholic. Depending on which group a person’s character belongs to, one can predict his reaction to the development of any situation. So, a brief description:

  • Cholerics show increased irritability. It is very difficult to calm them down and switch them from one thing to another. At the same time, they are always extroverts, have rich facial expressions and are very emotional;
  • Sanguines– very active, sociable people. They are strong in spirit and body. At the same time, they are very flexible in resolving conflicts, have many friends and diverse views;
  • Phlegmatic people– very balanced, strong people. They often occupy leadership positions. The decisions they make are always balanced and justified. They think about a problem for a very long time, which prevents them from making instant decisions when the situation requires it;
  • Melancholic people– people are impressionable and worried. Frequent mood swings and resentment for no reason are normal behavior for him. This type of temperament is inherent in creative people, people of art and bohemians.

In its pure form, the temperament of a certain group is rare. Most often these are mixed types, with temperaments close to each other. Having an idea about the qualities of each of them, it is easy to conclude that a semi-fainting state for one person will seem like just a slight nuisance for another. And vice versa, an offended choleric person will explode with emotions and angry speeches, while a phlegmatic person will begin to look for the cause of the conflict in himself, and in the end he will also ask for forgiveness from the offender.

You can easily find out what type of temperament you are by taking Eysenck test.

He characterizes each of them, describing character traits to the smallest detail. Knowledge of this field of science provides good support in psychological maneuvers of communicating with people. If you know how a melancholic person reacts to a given situation, you will be able to find an approach to him, and perhaps avoid a conflict situation, as well as mutual grievances. Manipulations of this kind are only for the good.

How to take revenge on an offender at work?

Armed with knowledge of psychology, you will definitely be able to avoid the development of a conflict, and if it does occur, then deftly take revenge on the offender. If your offender is sanguine, then you can easily influence him with simple actions.

Sanguine people are very sociable, and, therefore, communication is the air for them.

You can try to cut off the oxygen to your offender. One morning when you come to work, you can accidentally, with your light hand, play out the situation “girls, who are we friends with today?” Of course, this is all done before your offender arrives at work. By organizing significant support for yourself from your colleagues, you can easily punish the culprit of your suffering.

It is worth noting that this is only possible in an all-female team. With a man who is an offender, such a trick will not work. In this case, you will have to use heavy artillery. Gossip. They have never failed yet. They are the “snake” that crawls in unnoticed, but stings very painfully and at the most inopportune moment. Every company has a “local radio”, that is, a person who disseminates information at the speed of light, without resorting to such trifles as checking the accuracy of the facts.

Every office has its own Irochka or Lyudochka, to whom you just say a word, she herself will come up with further ideas and develop the topic until it reaches its apogee. So, having told Ira the necessary information in the morning, by lunchtime you can count on the first wave of effect. By this time, your offender has not yet understood what is going on, and does not know what awaits him.

Here it is worth clearly defining the topic of gossip and the degree of its reality. If you want to tell the world that your abuser is an alien, it is unlikely to work. Even Irochka won’t help here, but if you take into account the story in which he was noticed, even if he was not guilty, then you can play well on it. Encirclement from this flank will only be a continuation of the story that began earlier, so to speak, the revelation of the cult of the offender - the insolent one.

And it is simply not difficult to take revenge on the melancholic offender.

People with this temperament are very tearful and They are terribly afraid of scandals and screams.

If you are ready for such actions, then go ahead!

How to take revenge on the offender without violating the law of the Russian Federation?

You have probably observed a situation more than once when annoying gypsies surround a girl, woman or man and begin to actively offer their services: fortune telling by hand, on cards, and so on. Often, in addition to their “magical” abilities, they are excellent psychologists. They immediately see by the person’s reaction whether they will get a piece of the sweet pie here or not.

Their rude assertiveness is also based on knowledge of human temperament types. They don't study books on psychology. Their lifestyle gives them colossal practice, supported by a golden reserve of people who have been duped and fooled. But this is a clear demonstration of a violation of human rights, and, consequently, of the law.

Even if you are very upset and passionately want to take revenge on the offender, you must always remember that nothing happens without consequences

By the way, it will be said that it will not hurt you to remember that the law punishes not only actions, but also inaction in certain situations.

When developing a plan for revenge on your offender, remember that you yourself must stay out of bounds"dirty" business. Breaking the law will not bring advantages to your biography. You don’t want to check the “criminal record” box when filling out your next resume, do you? And then you won’t have to fill out so many of them. Because you will no longer be hired for certain types of work. Enterprises value their reputation. They are not kind to employees with questionable backgrounds.

You can twist your offender hand and foot by limiting the growth of his money supply. You can agree with a bank employee, for a certain percentage of remuneration, to provide you with the service of persuasion. By trusting your bank manager, your offender will not suspect a trick if he is offered to transfer money to another type of deposit. Supposedly it is more reliable and less exposed to risks. Cash injections will be reduced. And the bank wins, since there was no outflow of funds. Thus, your hands are clean, the offender is punished, and the bank is not in business at all. Only this plan is dangerous and is on the line between law and lawlessness. Be careful!

How to take revenge on an offender on social media. networks in VKontakte?

A proven way to take revenge on an offender on VKontakte is comments on his photos from the “left” account. Let him know what people really think about him!

You can use the Demotivators website, download his photos from his VKontakte page, and organize a cool topic that will make a dozen lovers of subtle banter laugh. Here everything depends on your imagination.

Is it possible to take revenge on an offender using a conspiracy (magic)?

And it’s easy to take revenge on the offender today, without putting it off until tomorrow, with the help of magic. If you are not afraid that after an act of magical influence your hair will fall out and all your teeth will rot, and that your children and your children’s children will be defective, then go to a fortune teller, fortune teller or witch, let them “help” you in taking revenge with the help of rituals and spells. Your wallet will lose weight, your chakras will close, your internal energy will be much weaker, and for this you will take revenge on the person you hate.

If your budget is limited and does not allow you to go to a certified specialist in “dirty matters”, try to talk to the offender yourself. Take a long wax candle. The candle should be wax, not paraffin. Light it up at 12 am. While the candle is burning, repeat the spell: “As this candle burns, so let the discord burn out, be covered in ashes, washed with smoke, let the enemy turn around; He will turn off his road and follow mine.” You need to repeat this while the candle is burning. This needs to be done for the growing, young month. During the full moon it is strictly prohibited, it can harm you.

The best way to resolve a conflict situation will be prayer in church and a candle lit to the Holy Great Martyr George the Victorious. Your sincere request, your sincere words and the need for protection, will certainly be heard by the saint in heaven, and he will pray for you to our Lord Jesus Christ.

Grievances pass through life in dark stripes from a person’s childhood to old age.

You need to try to avoid resentment, quarrels and conflicts.

They make our souls callous: you can take revenge on the offender at school with the help of the good old tradition - being on duty in the classroom. If you try, instead of having the assigned class duty officer on duty, you can arrange this wonderful activity for your offender to perform. He, of course, will not like the extra bucket of cold water, unwashed floors and desks. This will become science for him for the future.

Another option is to carry out revenge in a buffet or dining room. Accidentally pouring tea or juice onto your offender’s jacket will spoil his mood for the whole day, and of course “tarnish” his reputation.

If there is a holiday coming up at school, for example, an autumn ball, steal the best costume right from under the nose of your offender, even if you do not plan to perform on stage. Just give it to another girl later, the main thing is that your offender didn’t get it.

In any case, be careful, because such actions can ruin your reputation too.

Even the clearest plan of action cannot guarantee you an unconditional victory, or your offender the punishment he deserves. It is better to stop and think about what was done wrong, what can be done to avoid the brewing conflict. Think about it, maybe it’s worth “smoking a pipe of peace,” because it’s not for nothing that the wise Indians chose this symbolic move to maintain peace. We must improve every day, you may ask who we owe it to.

The answer is simple: we owe it to ourselves, because we live for ourselves, for our family and friends, so that our children live in a better world without troubles and disasters. Great things start from small things. Start with yourself, become better, and you will see that the world today is more beautiful than yesterday.

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Intelligent people use this type of retribution as a tool. How to take revenge on a person? I used to dream about adding blue dye to the school principal's shampoo. I thought this was the best way for me to get back at her. Because she didn’t allow me to move to another class with my friend. Of course, it was pure fantasy and it was childish to think about it, but it made me feel better and stronger.

How to take revenge on a person?

By thinking about revenge and how to get back at someone, you stimulate an area of ​​the brain that becomes active when you expect pleasure or some kind of reward, such as sex, receiving money, or eating a tasty dish. Research shows that while most people believe that revenge will make them feel better, the opposite is true.

In one experiment, participants were divided into punishers,who could take revenge, who “killed” them twice during the game, and non-punishers whocould only think about taking revenge on those who “killed” them twice. Both punishers and non-punishers rated their feelings immediately after the game, as well as 10 minutes later. The punishers felt worse than non-punishers , despite the fact that they received the opportunity to take revenge. And the punishers continued to feel worse at the 10-minute time point. In some cases, the punishers remained so distracted by their feelings that they could not concentrate on the next game.

So,

10 intelligent ways to get revenge or How to take revenge on a person.

She can't make you feel better, but sometimes it's necessary. There will be times in life when you must stick to what is right and stop people from trying to take advantage of you. When these people go too far, you will have to reconsider your boundaries. No one else will do it for you.

Author and psychologist Professor Michael McCullough explains that revenge serves an evolutionary purpose. Thanks to her, you make the other person lessprofitable,” which helps them avoid hurting you and others in the future.

The main thing is to take revenge wisely, without distracting too much from your overall goal in life.

Here are 10 smart ways to get revenge:

  1. Take revenge through work.

How to take revenge on a person? Bestthe way to get revenge is to remain highly rational. Don't let your emotions dictate your actions. And don't take personal revenge. Getting emotional and personal will distract you and make you do things that will make you feel bad later. Instead, do it professionally.

Act as if getting revenge is just a business decision. Someone has influenced the cost-benefit ratio of your life, and now you need to move the chess piece so that they can no longer take it from you in the future. The best way to do this is to pay attention to their behavior. But again, beprofessional.

How to take revenge on a person or company? Write a review about them online. Use them as examples in a professional article, book, or speech. Create a URL with their name and use it to report your sneaky activities. Just make sure you're honest and that it's truly worth the effort.

  1. Transparency.

Most people hate conflict. But at the same time, most people have hidden aggressive desires. So these people have learned to go underground and attack others passively.

There are always those in life who will talk about you behind your back, promise support that never comes, or cause others to attack you on their behalf. How to take revenge on a person? The best revenge against these passive aggressive actions is transparency.

Don't try to hide the conflict you are involved in. Show it off instead. Talk about your shortcomings and your conflicting feelings. Use what you have gathered to teach others. This kind of vulnerability doesn't go away easily. It takes practice. The more you practice transparency and authenticity, the better you position yourself against others who want to attack you.

In any battle, the person who can be the most vulnerable without losing his position wins.

  1. Grow your network.

When you're under attack, especially by someone nearby, one of your first instincts is to isolate yourself. You will feel overwhelmed and unsure of who you can trust. You will begin to raise walls around you. It's always a mistake.

Isolating yourself after an attack simply opens you up to further attacks. The best strategy is to move directly into the forces coming against you. Walk into the obstacle, not around it.

Instead of turning away from people, open yourself up. Talk to friends and family and make new friends. Create your network. The more connections you have, the more connections you have. Tautology - but it is so. And communication is the most important component of winning any battle.

  1. Switch your attention.

The worst thing is that they can get into your head and take over your focus. And once they are in your head, fighting them is like fighting yourself.

The best way to get someone out of their head is to redirect their focus. Whatever the case, you think about how they hurt you and they think about how you could respond. So the best option is to move your focus to another object.

  1. Take advantage of them.

Imagine that someone is blatantly taking advantage of you, and you reach out to them to give them a gift, or a job, or ask for advice. Who will be strong in this scenario? Who will become weak?

Doing something nice for someone who offends you is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of intelligence. Turning the other cheek dissipates the power of other people. This sharpens the contrast between you and them, emphasizing their negative actions against your positive response. It also has a stunning effect that allows you to get a deep look into how these people think and what they really want.

  1. Create a void.

When someone attacks you, your first reaction will be to follow up on them and figure out what's wrong. You will want to seek justice, hold a mirror up to their face and show them why they are wrong. It's a waste of time.

No one will think they are wrong, at least not right away. By reacting to attacks, you add energy to the situation. You also reveal your position. The best strategy is to sit back and control yourself and let them talk. This is especially effective when someone is attacking you online. Don't show any signs of weakness or distress. Instead, slowly remove yourself from the situation. Then wait to see how others react. Create a void and see what fills it. This will give you perspective and help you understand how to best use this situation to your advantage.

  1. Create fog.

Start seeing people who are against you. At least now you know where they are. And once you know where they are, you can start directing your next steps.

There are many people in life who will want to keep you from getting what you want.They won't keep you around because they want what you want., but because your growth emphasizes their inaction. When you come across such people, just pay attention to who they are and don't tell them anything personal in the future. Without knowing who you really are and what you really want, these people won't know how to keep you.

  1. Get the form.

People who work out 2-3 times a week are more emotionally intelligent, make better decisions, and maintain more balanced hormone levels. Plus, if you look great and feel great, who cares what else happens to you?

Your health is worth more than all the money or power in the world, which is why maintaining it is such a great way to get revenge. It replaces everything in life, but is often taken for granted. So, when you stay fit, you stand out from those who fade away.

  1. Start a business.

Doing something for yourself is the best revenge.

Sometimes it can feel like the whole world is trying to hold you back. But this is just an illusion. In reality, very few people are concerned about you. Everyone is too busy trying to improve their lives, and rightfully so. A good way to get back into a world that will support you is to build something of your own.

Study art. Show initiative. Start a business, form a partnership, or start a non-profit. Don't overdo it, just start a business and see where it takes you.

  1. Include it in the WHY question.

The desire to take revenge and how to take revenge on a person is a powerful, motivating force. This nagging feeling occurs when someone treats you poorly.

Study after study shows that revenge, once done, is not sweet. So use this to your advantage. Turn your desire for revenge on those who wronged you into a question“ WHY?". The answer will show how obvious the benefits of revenge are to you.

Every person has encountered in his life betrayal, dishonest fulfillment of promises, and other things to which we usually react with resentment. Sometimes we get offended even when the offender had good reasons to let us down. This does not seem significant: the main thing is that our interests are respected at any cost.

We can be offended in almost any situation, unexpectedly, even by the people closest to us:

Experiencing strong resentment, a person begins to think about revenge. There is a widespread belief that revenge must necessarily follow any insult and humiliation. Supposedly this is how you can prove to the whole world that you are a worthy person. Is this belief true?

As a rule, after successful revenge a person does not feel any relief. Maybe the desire to take revenge is just a harmful reflex? Consider this example: a naval battle of sailing warships. There's a hole in the side of your ship, he is drowning. How to improve your position in this situation - should you fire back or close the gap? What if the gap was created not by an enemy ship, but by some cliff?

Revenge in cinema

Films in which the main character takes revenge on the villains are very popular. We are following the development of these stories with great interest.. But pay attention to how you feel after finishing these films. What remains but the joy of spectacular fight scenes and beautiful explosions?

You may notice that only sadness remains. It’s more interesting when the “villain” in a movie is better revealed, his motivation is shown so that we can see that we would probably be no different from him if we were in his place.

Spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle, speaking on this topic, recommended watching the film “Gran Torino,” characterizing it as “transformative.” Indeed, events there develop in a somewhat non-standard way, and as a result, the viewer can experience real catharsis.

Vendetta

An extreme manifestation of revenge for an insult is vendettas, common on some islands of the Mediterranean Sea until the beginning of the last century. They consisted in the fact that for the death of one’s family member, one of the killer’s family should certainly be killed. As a rule, each subsequent revenge became more and more cruel than the previous one, and often as a result both warring clans were exterminated to the last person. And pay attention: after all, both clans took revenge, and did not just mindlessly kill. Both had reasons to be offended.

There is nothing else, there is no one else... There is no one else except that raven - there is no one to shoot at him... (B. Okudzhava)

Blood feud is a barbaric custom that survives today only in the wildest regions. However, even in civilized societies, many still want to take revenge, albeit in less radical ways, for their grievances. People don't understand that being offended is an extremely infantile behavior. We learn it in infancy, when we understand that with the help of our grievances we can blackmail our parents and peers, receiving certain benefits: candy, ice cream and affection.

Children's grievances

Having been offended, you can demand more from a kind mother than she would like to give us herself. Perhaps she has a small salary and cannot afford a new toy or sweets right now, but when she sees her offended child, she will not be able to resist and will be forced to spend more than the family budget allows. The inability to plan for the future is another infantile trait. It is thanks to her that the child considers it possible to manipulate his parents, who have good reasons not to satisfy all his whims.

If such a child grows up without getting rid of infantile character traits, he seeks to use black magic and conspiracies to take revenge on the enemy, to humiliate him so that he suffers. He knows no other joy than to brutally take revenge on the enemy and ruin a person’s life. The problem is that this joy is not too great . The desire for revenge is one of those that is more pleasant to imagine than to implement, and inside after revenge there remains only emptiness, the realization that nothing has changed for the better.

How to act more wisely?

If the offense inflicted on you is reversible - something of yours was damaged, a monetary debt was not returned, then you should simply start restoring the damage. Rest assured: karma will take care of the offender. Remember what happens to those leading a vendetta? A person who allows himself to treat others unfairly is digging a hole for himself into which he will one day have to fall. You don't even have to push it. So forgive him and forget him, you have more important things to do now: repair the damage done. You must respond as if the damage was caused by a natural disaster or bad weather. You don’t get offended by bad weather - you just take an umbrella.

If you have been offended, and strong feelings are seething within you, such as anger, rage, indignation, you become an easy target for manipulation. You can easily become a victim of a scammer, for example, who will sell you a pseudo-magical “spell”. How to punish a person for meanness, he won’t tell you, but he will replenish the fake sorcerer’s wallet (and significantly lighten yours).

In any situation, you should take care of your well-being. Harming someone is not in your best interests. Moreover, this creates the risk that they will want to harm you in return, and this will last indefinitely. Don't you have something more interesting to do?

Plato, in his dialogue “The State,” cited Socrates’ reasoning about justice. It is difficult to imagine a reader who has read it and then wants to take revenge on someone. This dialogue very simply explains that a person who has committed a bad act is bad. And justice is doing good deeds. If you harm a bad person, it will make him even worse. Which means you will be unfair. Therefore, it would be fair not to do evil even to bad people, so that they do not become even worse from it.

Two frogs

You are so eager to judge the sins of others. Start with your own people, and you won’t reach others. (W. Shakespeare)

This quote says the same thing that Jesus says in the New Testament: you see the speck in someone else’s eye, but you don’t notice the log in your own. The point here is to focus on your development. In any situation, you should make efforts to become stronger yourself. Remember the parable about two frogs drowning in sour cream? One of them was offended by the whole world and drowned. The second one began to quickly move its paws, the sour cream turned into butter, and the frog was able to get free. If she had started making plans for revenge on the man who left the pot of sour cream open, nothing good would have come of it.

It's time to stop looking for someone to blame. It's time to become an adult. It's time for us all to grow up. It's time for us all to stop looking for someone to blame. This is the first sign of growing up - to stop looking for who is to blame. (I. Vyrypaev)

Transferring responsibility to another person is very easy, pleasant and convenient. But not everyone thinks about the consequences of this. The baby has no choice: he has no means of his own and is completely dependent on his parents; only they can buy him a toy or candy.

But as a person grows up, he must realize that more and more actions become available to him. Already, having discovered that there is no candy in your pocket, there is no need to angrily kick your mother’s shoe, as some children do. You can go to the store and buy yourself some candy with your salary.

When does a person, being already an adult, retains this childish mental mechanism that in case of trouble he must certainly be offended by someone, he may face a number of unpleasant consequences.

Hatred is the acquisitiveness of love. (E. Brodetsky)

According to this psychologist, even hatred is just our attempt to receive love. What can we say about resentment? Being offended, we try to demand some dividends from the offender.

A mother, reluctantly, can close her eyes to the whims of her child and still give him the desired treat. If, as an adult, he behaves this way at work, his boss may simply fire him. His colleagues won't understand him either.

If you're feeling left out, it's greener to simply speak up about how you feel. And if you were not heard, then quit and find a job with a more suitable psychological climate for you.

A lit candle will shine until it burns out and goes out. Our life is just as short, and it’s stupid to waste it on petty grievances. . You yourself will suffer from them first of all.. If you come up with a way to annoy someone who, in your opinion, is to blame, to frame him, the suffering will only become more, not less. Now, besides you, one more person will suffer. It makes more sense to think about how to make sure there is less suffering in the world.

Moreover, resentment can even lead to illness. But this is a topic for another article and on another topic.

Below are some practices that can benefit your mental state and spiritual well-being if you have been wronged:

Prayer

A good way to improve your life is prayer. If you spend at least an hour a day in prayer, gradually the grievances will begin to let go of you. “Thy will be done”, “Lord have mercy” - is it possible after such words to retain the selfish desire to harm someone, to hurt?

Runa Evaz

If you have found the courage to forgive your offenders and allow God to give them what they deserve, this rune will help you avoid unpleasant situations in the future. You can draw it somewhere in your home, carry its image with you, or even get a tattoo with it. The less selfishness and resentment you have and the more steadfastness you have in resisting anger and outbursts of anger, the more benefits the Rune of Forgiveness will bring you.

Forgiveness Sunday

In the Christian tradition, there is a special day when forgiveness is given special attention - Forgiveness Sunday. It usually falls in February, the exact date varies from year to year. On this day, Christians not only forgive those with whom they were offended, but also ask for forgiveness from everyone around them. Everyone who has been offended, wittingly or unwittingly. When you ask for forgiveness, you understand that you yourself have offended someone, and this gives you a feeling of harmony in the world. You no longer feel undeservedly offended by someone, it becomes easier to forgive your offenders.

Ho'oponopono

Famous esotericist Joe Vitale talks about the Hawaiian method of changing life for the better, which is called “H'oponopono.” According to him, a person who practiced it cured an entire psychiatric clinic simply by repeating a few words. Namely:

Repeating these words, filling them with sincere repentance and love and addressing them to the patients, doctors and even the walls of the building, Hew Len ensured that the clinic was closed: there was no one to treat, everyone began to recover. Also, with the help of this technique, you can improve your health, and it can be performed completely unnoticed by others, repeating these words to yourself. Distance is not a hindrance for her either.

Conclusion

Touchiness is a harmful and infantile character trait that must be removed from your arsenal in order, no less, to survive in this difficult world. You can be as angry as you want with your boss, but even if the reason for your anger is unfair dismissal, the best option is to forgive. This same path is the best if the woman you love does not live up to your expectations.

The expressions “smile/travel - it annoys everyone” are absolutely fair. This is exactly the best revenge - just focusing on making your life beautiful and amazing. In the movie "Merlin" with the inimitable Sean Connery, there was an evil witch that nothing could penetrate, except for one thing. She was defeated when everyone forgot about her and stopped paying attention to her. . We wish you to punish your offenders in the same way.

You can take revenge on a person in different ways, but how to do this, knowing only his phone number, is an almost insoluble question for some. However, although small, the offended party has the opportunity to cause some trouble. You just have to act carefully, because there is always the possibility that the avenger will be identified by his IP or number.

How to take revenge on a male offender if you know his phone number?

The psychology of men has a certain peculiarity - they hate giving up, and will look for an avenger to punish them until the last moment. That is why you can take revenge on a male offender persistently, but carefully, so as not to get caught.

The Achilles heel of almost any man is his car. Therefore, the first thing you can do is to place advertisements on various resources about its sale for almost nothing. Not only will the phone be “cut off,” but also the car owner’s self-esteem will suffer enormous damage. If you don’t have a car, you can “sell” anything through advertisements.

Suspicion of a non-traditional sexual orientation would infuriate any normal man. To make sure this happens, you can place ads about finding a friend on the appropriate resources.

Many sites selling various potency products or sex toys ask buyers for a phone number to confirm the purchase. After ordering many similar products to the offender’s phone, he will simply be bombarded with calls.

A rather cruel way to take revenge is to play the role of a troll on some resource, and then give angry opponents the phone number of the offender.

Here are some more ways to make your bully angry:

  • You can torture a person with endless calls through the auto-dial service;
  • through the alarm clock service, the victim can be woken up every day before dawn;
  • through the free messaging service you can overwhelm the offender with an avalanche of SMS messages;
  • You will receive a lot of different spam on your phone if you connect mailing lists on sites offering promotions, discounts, loans, etc.

How to take revenge on a woman's phone number?

Some methods intended for men, after making some adjustments, are quite capable of unbalancing a woman. For example, you can post a lady’s number on a resource where “priestesses of love” offer their services. However, with a barrage of incomprehensible or scary calls and SMS spam, a woman will most likely quickly change her phone number.

If you know how to endure and wait, you can take revenge on a woman in a more sophisticated way. For example, portray a secret admirer. Few women can resist the onslaught of a romantic and persistent gentleman who, by hook or by crook, got hold of his beloved’s number and bombards her with lyrical and frank messages. And the correspondence that has become intimate can be shown to the lady’s husband, friend or acquaintances.

How to punish a person knowing his phone number and not get into trouble?

When planning revenge, you should keep in mind that some methods are far from harmless. According to the law, it is forbidden to disturb people’s sleep at night, spread slander, damage property, or insult people. Legal revenge may involve collecting evidence of the offender’s illegal actions and filing a complaint with law enforcement agencies. You can report to the police for vandalism, theft, threats, stalking, etc.

And if the offender did not commit anything that can be presented at the court hearing, it is best to abandon revenge altogether. Treat this person’s dirty tricks as the actions of a narrow-minded individual. And revenge, most likely, will be carried out by life itself. After all, a person always receives with a boomerang what he himself sends.

In today’s article on the website Koshechka.ru we will discuss with you a very difficult topic: how to take revenge on the person who betrayed you.

Is it necessary and how to take revenge on a traitor?

It’s not easy to cope with a feeling of resentment, but I would still like to start not with how to hurt the offender and ruin his life in revenge for betrayal, but with what consequences this can lead to, how you will feel after this and so How sweet is the taste of this notorious revenge?

Revenge is definitely bad and wrong for many reasons. But in this article we are not talking about morality. Therefore, only bare facts while you think about how to take revenge on the person who betrayed you.

You can give thousands more examples of how people’s lives are destroyed because of a banal desire for revenge, and not only their own. After all, revenge is destructive. In addition, back to the facts, as practice shows, people who commit treason are still punished. This may not happen immediately and not specifically to them, but, for example, affect their children, relatives or friends, or work. Therefore, taking this into account, it is worth thinking about what will happen to you for such actions. After all, revenge and betrayal are equal things: both are base feelings that poison a person’s life.

The easiest way to take revenge on the enemy is to strike at the weakest points. To do this, you must first of all get to know them based on this - make plans for revenge.

Everyone knows the situation described by the great William Shakespeare in the work “Romeo and Juliet”. This story opens up to us a world of prohibitions with which young people in love fought, despite the hostility of their families.

Unfortunately, such stories almost always end sadly, as in this case: “There is no sadder story in the world than the story of Romeo and Juliet.” Enemies, developing serious “games” on the battlefield, endanger the well-being of those around them. However, there are times when open conflict and its resolution leads to truth, but to achieve this you need to try hard.

Reasons for revenge

The most important thing in a person's life- treat people the way he would like to be treated, build the world with his own hands.

If people followed the teachings of the 11th century, which the Prince of Kiev Vladimir Monomakh outlined in his work, then the world would undoubtedly become kinder. They sound like this:

  • Treat others the way you want to be treated;
  • Strengthen your body and soul, enlighten your mind;
  • Work in such a way that nothing will be redone after you;
  • Be better tomorrow than you are today;
  • Don't let the strong humiliate the weak;
  • Do not abandon the sick, do not forget about the poor;
  • Do not have pride either in your mind or in your heart;
  • Having known yourself well, remember, and what you don’t know, learn;
  • Live for the Fatherland and love people.

Living in accordance with such rules, a person “grows” morally, spiritually and physically. It doesn't matter that these words have passed through the centuries. They are still relevant today, just as they were relevant many years ago. We can say with one hundred percent certainty that they will still be significant in another 5-10 centuries. With such a position in life, a person has many more friends, acquaintances, good acquaintances than enemies.

And yet, even attempts at self-control sometimes do not save you from “explosive” situations. If you have an enemy, you can deal with him. First, you should decide with a hundred percent guarantee who this person is for you. Maybe you’re just really upset with him, and he’s not your enemy at all? Resentment passes quickly if your heart is open and you do not harbor a grudge.

It may be that it's not a matter of offense at all, and your relationship with this person is constantly deteriorating, turning your life into a thriller? In this case, the relationship between two people who are in a constant state of enmity makes it possible to clearly determine who they are to each other. Enemies. Making an enemy is not a tricky business; it is caused by a discrepancy in views, a quick temper, unbridled temperament and, oddly enough, a lack of education.

It is one thing to become an enemy of someone, and another to live with it. Enemies are enemies because they never leave each other unattended. The enemy is like a bone in the throat that you want to pull out, because it constantly gets in the way.

To the enemy I always want revenge, because even the thought of it brings the brain into a boiling state. How can you take revenge on your enemy without self-destructing?

Watching for the object of your anger in a dark alley with a knife is not a very appropriate way. This is too bloodthirsty, and also an illegal method of revenge. There are many other effective ways.


Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

If the object of revenge does not calm down and “asks” you to “annoy” him, then you will have to fulfill his request. Only you need to do this not in the heat of the moment, but gradually, without attracting unnecessary attention to yourself and without arousing suspicion.

A good example from history when revenge was accompanied by a long-term strategy. The Egyptian pharaoh was given poison in his food, which is not eliminated from the body, but rather accumulates. To cause its lightning-fast effect, you need to take the poison in large quantities. In small doses, it does not immediately have a fatal effect, but after taking it for several months, a person will one day simply not wake up, since the dose in the body will already be too high, and processes incompatible with life will occur. Pharaoh was also unlucky; he was poisoned. In those days, there were no methods and methods for solving such a crime.

Today, uncovering such acts is not difficult for employees of the investigative department. And we are, of course, not talking about murder.

Take a person's life no one has the right, that’s why there is a law that cannot be broken!

This is inhumane! However, the power of the strategy of such actions can be harnessed. What is meant? To take revenge on the enemy, you need remember one old saying: “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.”

Tame your enemy make him dependent on you, will be a very effective revenge. You can always be aware of all his affairs, all his plans and thoughts. It gives you carte blanche. Unlimited powers will be opened to you only by the trust won from the enemy.

Gradually tying him to you, like poison, you will accumulate his calmness, which at one fine moment may explode in a storm of emotions: when your “poison” accumulates in sufficient quantities. The control panel for your enemy's actions is in your hands. You can press the start button at any time and there will be an explosion. Your enemy will definitely not expect revenge on the sly.

There are many roads in life, walking along one of them, you choose your path. What happens on this road is no one’s fault, because you chose it yourself. You can stop at any time and not press the button on the remote control that controls your revenge. Judge for yourself, it is, of course, possible to take revenge on the enemy, only for the sake of your own satisfaction or some other principles, but who will be better off from this? For you - exactly five minutes.

The harm that your revenge can cause can have a crushing effect, it can destroy what is dear to you, and you won’t even notice, because anger will cover your eyes.

How to take revenge on the enemy without being noticed?


In the mid-90s of the last century, the following incident occurred in one school in a small town. Somehow, over time, enmity developed between the two people. This was not a petty quarrel, carrying the smell of daily clashes, this was a real enmity. Moreover, the enemies were not peers, not high school students and younger children, but a teacher and an eighth-grade student. Their quarrels began at recess, continued throughout the lesson, and, in fact, they ended it. All the children looked at what was happening with bated breath and waited for the next act. The teacher could not forgive the student’s insolence, and he, in turn, did not let the teacher off the hook, making all sorts of barbs and comments to him.

After another fight in class, the student, realizing that he was losing, decided to take revenge on the enemy in a more drastic way. Knowing where the teacher lived, the student planned to cause material damage to his home. No, not just breaking glass or scratching a mailbox, the idea was much more interesting. At that time, it was very fashionable to cover the entrance doors to apartments with material that imitated leather. The so-called leatherette. It came in all sorts of colors, interesting shades, was decorated with carnations with curly caps, and was used to trim ordinary wooden doors.

So the “poor” teacher also had such doors, covered with cherry material. The student, having chosen the right time when his enemy was not at home, entered the entrance, looked around so that there was no one nearby, and..., put his sinister plan into action. At home, the student prepared a syringe in advance, into which he collected egg whites. Yes, just regular egg white. He pierced the door in several places near the decorative studs, and inserted a “fast-acting weapon.”

Of course, there were no traces of the injection left on the door, but the mechanism was started. The thing is that when heated, being in a warm room, the protein disappears, and small pests appear that eat the door. It is not possible to remove them. The owner of the door cannot determine their location, and the stench emanating from the door is incomparable. The same fate awaited the teacher's door. He could not understand where the source of infection was, especially since there was more than one source. I had to replace the door.

Of course, the teacher could not prove that these were the tricks of his student, and henceforth he was very careful with him. As they say, not caught is not a thief, and in our case, not guilty. This is the inconspicuous method of revenge that the hero of our story chose. Despite the triumph over the enemy, you should think a thousand times before taking revenge on someone. After all, such actions can lead not only to property damage, but the consequences can be much more serious.

How to take revenge on the enemy using magic and conspiracy?


Revenge is a terrible thing, and when it is backed by magical spells, it’s doubly scary. By performing any ritual, a person influences his aura: he cleanses it or pollutes it. By carrying out the rite of baptism of a child, a prayer for health, a wedding and other good deeds, a person opens his aura to positive energy, which passes through him, fills him, and brightens his soul. By reading “black” spells, a person takes sin on his soul, he defiles himself, his loved ones, his family for many generations.

Therefore, before you decide to perform a magical ritual, think about can you live with this, and most importantly, how long can you live with a dark soul.

And you can take revenge on the enemy with the help of magic by depriving him of luck and money. If luck turns away from a person, then money will most likely cease to be his friends. You need to perform a “sharp” ritual.

To do this, you will need four knives with a long blade, a large calico scarf, running water (collected from the river) and salt (ordinary table salt). Be sure to cover your head and go out to the intersection at 20:00, when the sun has completely set and dusk has begun to creep over the city. The intersection must be with signs and away from the city.

Stand near the sign, wet the ground with water from a bottle containing running water, dig a hole with the longest knife. Then place the knives around the perimeter of the pit one after another, pour salt into a handkerchief, hold it in the palm of your hand and say: “Luck leave my enemy (Name) for a long time, crush his success, and leave his hope.” Repeat six times. Tie a scarf with salt into four knots and bury it in a dug hole. From above again pour running water. Collect your knives, take them away, walk and don’t look back. It’s best to never use knives again, they will only bring bad luck and cuts.

Remember, this is not a joke, it is better not to resort to such actions!

How to take revenge on your enemy via the Internet?


  • One of the options for revenge via the Internet is sending spam on behalf of your enemy. To do this, using a special program, the sector-path of the IP address of the desired object is found and all sorts of nasty things are sent on its behalf. This kind of sabotage will ruin the reputation of your enemy.
  • A more serious way to take revenge on an enemy via the Internet is to launch a virus on his computer. This can be done through the World Wide Web, which is a more delicate and time-consuming job. Or you can simply send him a link to some site with a malicious Trojan, which will shake the nerves of the enemy camp. Although in this case you do not have 100% confidence in victory, because a lot depends on the upgrade of your enemy’s antivirus software.
  • A friend understands at a glance, Laughs and is sad with you. I’m always ready to give good advice. With a friend you can just be yourself. Yes...

When someone offends a person, thoughts of revenge immediately creep into his head. Of course, you can wait until the emotions subside, and perhaps the desire will go away on its own. But this does not always happen, and most often a person involuntarily thinks about how to take revenge on the offender. You will find some tips below.

How to take revenge on an offender without breaking the law?

It is necessary to take revenge without breaking the law, otherwise such acts will be of no use. So, the easiest way to get revenge is to start gossip. Surely there is a person in your circle who can easily spread the news around the world. If a friend has offended you, then you can hint to your gossip friend that you saw the offender in the arms of a mutual friend. Who would have thought, but she pretended to be an exemplary wife. In a few days, this story will acquire incredible details and will be presented to you by an outsider. Perhaps this gossip will reach the ears of your friend’s husband, who will most likely cause a scandal for her, and you will be revenged.

If you have been offended by a representative of the stronger sex, then you will be interested in reading the articles on our website - and.

You can also do minor dirty tricks to the offender from time to time and set him up at every opportunity. If he is within your reach, then discreetly salt his tea or coffee, bring him juice with a laxative. Such small pranks will amuse you. Learn about your abuser's fears. For example, if he hates rats, mice, spiders, you can plant them in his workplace or in his house or apartment. It is important not to get caught, otherwise a scandal cannot be avoided.

It’s very easy to punish a male offender, just spread gossip about his gayness, plus throw him a few gay magazines. After this, the entire male population of the office will constantly make fun of him. If you do not work with your offender, then you can spread a similar rumor among mutual friends.

If you have been insulted by a lady, the articles will help you punish your negligent lover and calm your pride.

How to take revenge using magic?

Magic can help you take revenge on your offender. There are quite a few conspiracies, after reading which the one who insulted you will come to apologize. Also, an accident may happen to the offender, he may get sick or even die. But the best thing is to make him feel the same way as you. To do this, you need to pronounce the following spell: Go, arrow, with pain, tears, untrodden paths, through his blood, not into the eye, not into the eyebrow, but go straight into the heart. Pinch him and stab him, beat him, punish him, punish him, destroy him - my offender (name). Key, lock, Amen.

More tips on how to punish someone who has offended you can be found in our article.

When drawing up a plan for revenge, it is important to remember that evil thoughts in the heart will bring harm to you, especially if magic is involved in this matter. After all, all the evil that you wish on others can easily come back to you like a boomerang. Think about it, perhaps in a few days the emotions will subside and you will be able to look at the situation with different eyes.

We are all (as sad as it may sound) social creatures. We are surrounded not only by friends, family and acquaintances who treat us with all their hearts and sincerity, but also by attackers and envious people who wish us harm. We call the latter our “enemies”. We are all living people, and we too may run out of patience. In such cases, you just want to kill, destroy, wipe out this enemy, this subhuman, from the face of the earth! But this may be followed by appropriate punishment from the law, and the measure of restraint will depend on the particular degree of severity of our revenge. How to take revenge on the offender, bypassing the current legislation? What can be done so that he gets what he deserves, and we remain unpunished? This will be discussed in our article.

You are burning in hell!

People who are unpleasant and objectionable to our souls can be found anywhere: at work, at home, on public transport, and even on our own TV. Some of them are familiar to us, while others suddenly appear out of nowhere. It also happens that the worst enemies become former friends or relatives with whom connections have been deliberately lost. However, those who require real punishment are rapists, robbers and other criminals.

How to take revenge on an offender in our time?

Despite the fact that we live in the 21st century, the most effective and unpunished (from the point of view of legislation) measures are, of course, ritual conspiracies. What does it mean? Let's figure out how to energetically take revenge on the offender!

Conspiracy against the enemy - what is it?

Did you know that planet Earth is completely immersed in an energy field? Many of us don’t even realize that we can move mountains with the power of our own energy! We may well attract and repel certain events. The only difficulty is that not each of us knows how to manage it.

To know how to take revenge on an offender with the power of your own will, you need to understand that the quantum of our energy works in combination with certain sound vibrations. All this has stood the test of time. It is curious that in conspiracies it is not at all necessary to know the name of the offender! It is enough just to mentally imagine his image. The conspiracy will already become purposeful.

How to take revenge on the offender. Conspiracy magic

Know that sometimes your own conspiracy, like a boomerang, can cause you new offense, but not always! In many cases, the troubles that haunt enemies after the ritual you performed are not evil on a universal scale! Very often such revenge is called “holy”! At the same time, your actions can force someone who is prudent to finally use their reason and correct themselves, to return to the true path.

The conspiracy should be pronounced in the back of the offender (enemy) who passed by you. Here's what you need to whisper: “Arrow, go with illness and tears, and untrodden lands, go through his blood, not into the eye or the eyebrow, but into the very heart! Stab and splinter him! Beat him, kill him! Exterminate him, and punish him - my negligent offender (name). The key and the lock, and the worldly vow!

Well, friends, now you and I are “armed”, because we know and understand how to take revenge on the offender without resorting to illegal actions that are punishable by law! Good luck to you!